{"id":17087,"date":"2023-07-25T14:48:55","date_gmt":"2023-07-25T14:48:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.yogajournal.com\/?p=112808"},"modified":"2023-07-25T14:48:55","modified_gmt":"2023-07-25T14:48:55","slug":"8-surprising-dos-and-donts-of-living-with-anxiety-according-to-experts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/yogacourseware.com\/index.php\/2023\/07\/25\/8-surprising-dos-and-donts-of-living-with-anxiety-according-to-experts\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Surprising Dos and Don\u2019ts of Living with Anxiety, According to Experts"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"o-content-cta\">\n<p class=\"o-content-cta-text\"> Heading out the door? Read this article on the new Outside+ app available now on iOS devices for members! &lt;a href=&quot;https:\/\/outsideapp.onelink.me\/wOhi\/6wh1kbvw&quot; class=&quot;o-content-cta-link&quot; data-analytics-event=&quot;click&quot; data-analytics-data=&quot;{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Element Clicked&quot;,&quot;props&quot;:{&quot;destination_url&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/outsideapp.onelink.me\/wOhi\/6wh1kbvw&quot;,&quot;domain&quot;:&quot;&lt;&gt;&quot;,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;in-content-cta&quot;,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;link&quot;}}&#8221;&gt;Download the app<\/a>. <\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>You feel stressed about a presentation at work and can\u2019t seem to shake imposter syndrome. Your friend blows up your phone seeking reassurance about her relationship. Your mom hasn\u2019t had a decent night\u2019s sleep in weeks because she can\u2019t stop worrying.<\/p>\n<p>As a rule, worry doesn\u2019t discriminate. But how it plays out is unique to each of us. \u201cStress tends to be more specific to an external pressure that you\u2019re aware of, and it\u2019s shorter-term,\u201d says Juliet Lam Kuehnle, a clinical mental health counselor and author of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Who-You-Callin-Crazy-Journey\/dp\/1960892010\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Who You Callin\u2019 Crazy?! The Journey from Stigma to Therapy<\/em><\/a>. <span>Although stress can occasionally trigger feelings of anxiousness, Kuehnle continues, anxiety tends to be longer lasting and <\/span><span>typically involves \u201canticipatory worry of some future event.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p>The experience of anxiety can either be related to a specific identifiable situation or it can be more generalized. But the one constant is fear in response to uncertainty, says <a href=\"https:\/\/www.drrobynmckay.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Robyn McKay<\/a>, PhD, psychologist, and executive coach in Scottsdale, Arizona.<\/p>\n<p>Although occasional anxiety happens to most of us, chronic anxiety is less common yet more debilitating, causing you to become so preoccupied with the future that you find yourself unable to be experience what\u2019s happening in the present. At work, for instance, you might notice that you\u2019re unfocused, less productive, and lacking in creativity. Anxiety can also make it difficult to connect with friends and family, develop intimate relationships, and appreciate life, says McKay.<\/p>\n<p>Although you can\u2019t control what happens to you, there are some everyday contributors to anxiety that you can influence in an attempt to soothe your emotional state. If you think you might suffer from chronic anxiety, seeking out a board-certified therapist can provide helpful insights and ensure that you don\u2019t struggle through your fears alone.<\/p>\n<h2>8 Unexpected Dos and Don\u2019ts to Minimize Anxiety<\/h2>\n<h3>1. Do Stay Hydrated<\/h3>\n<p>You already know (and have been told a mind-numbing number of times) that adequate water intake is essential for your physical well-being. But quelling your anxiety may be another compelling reason to reach for your water bottle.<\/p>\n<p>According to a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC6147771\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">study<\/a> in the <em>World Journal of Psychiatry<\/em>, subjects who drank five or more glasses of water a day reported lower ratings of anxiety and depression than those who drank less than two glasses a day. Although more research is needed, it can\u2019t hurt to keep your water glass or bottle in sight at all times. If you still forget to sip, set an alarm for every 30 minutes as a reminder.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_112811\" class=\"pom-image-wrap photo-alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/yogacourseware.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/8-surprising-dos-and-donts-of-living-with-anxiety-according-to-experts.png\" data-lazy-load class=\"size-full wp-image-112811 aligncenter\" alt=\"Quote about anxiety\" width=\"448\" height=\"406\"><\/figure>\n<h3>2. Don\u2019t Tell Your Brain to Stop Worrying<\/h3>\n<p>Chances are you\u2019ve seen the meme that says, \u201cNever in the history of calming down has anyone calmed down by being told to calm down.\u201d The same advice applies to how you talk to yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Telling yourself to turn off your negative thoughts is \u201clike asking your nose to stop smelling or your ears to stop listening,\u201d says McKay. By trying to stop the thoughts, you draw even more attention to them, making it harder for your brain to disregard whatever incited your anxiety.<\/p>\n<p>A better approach to disrupting negative thoughts is by focusing your attention elsewhere, says McKay. What type of distraction works best will be unique to you. One way to quiet your fears about the future is to become intensely absorbed in your present, whether that means watching your coffee brew, losing yourself in a book, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yogajournal.com\/lifestyle\/balance\/journal-prompts-for-self-discovery\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">journaling your thoughts<\/a>, or focusing all your attention on what the other person in a conversation is saying.<\/p>\n<p>Another way to focus your awareness to what you\u2019re doing is to move your body, which also brings other anti-anxiety benefits.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Do Get Physically Active<\/h3>\n<p>Your body can\u2019t discern the difference between an actual threat and something that you perceive as a threat. That means whenever you become anxious, your sympathetic nervous system automatically activates, your body goes into fight, flight, or freeze mode, and your heart rate, blood pressure and breathing to accelerate. It\u2019s the exact same response whether you barely averted a car accident or were asked a question in a Zoom meeting while you weren\u2019t paying attention.<\/p>\n<p>Although you can\u2019t change your physiological response, you can learn how to lessen the severity of it, Kuehlne says. Regular exercise can help. A <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/pii\/S0165032721010739?via%3Dihub\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">study<\/a> from the <em>Journal of Affective Disorders<\/em> found that moderate and strenuous exercise, including aerobic activity and strength training, helped ease symptoms of anxiety in those who were suffering from chronic anxiety. A <a href=\"https:\/\/jamanetwork.com\/journals\/jamapsychiatry\/fullarticle\/2769486\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">study<\/a> in <em>JAMA Psychiatry<\/em> also found improved symptoms in those subjects with generalized anxiety disorder who practiced yoga.<\/p>\n<p>In terms of how much exercise you \u201cshould\u201d be doing, any amount of moving your body is better than none. That could mean letting loose in a dance party of one in between meetings, taking yoga class, or heading out on a hike.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Don\u2019t Get Sucked into Doomscrolling<\/h3>\n<p>No is telling you to quit social media. But according to a recent study, when college students limited their social media usage to 30 minutes a day, their anxiety levels decreased.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnyone who experiences anxiety is likely to be affected by the scroll,\u201d McKay says. But the researchers specified that the results were less about the specific amount of time spent online and more about being aware of how you\u2019re interacting with social media and making some effort to limit yourself. That includes being choosy about who you follow, which means lessening your exposure to sensationalized news reports and beautified accounts that only show the \u201cInstagram version\u201d of life.<\/p>\n<p>Also, consider using social media for good, McKay says. Post or share things that inspire you or use it as a place where you can catch up with your friends.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Do Eat More Plants<\/h3>\n<p>The relationship between food and your mood is not news\u2014and something that\u2019s probably been apparent to you since you were a kid. But <a href=\"https:\/\/annalsmedres.org\/index.php\/aomr\/article\/view\/4423\">recent research<\/a> published in the <em>Annals of Medical Research<\/em> suggests a surprising correlation between a predominantly plant-based lifestyle and anxiety.<\/p>\n<p>Researchers surveyed hundreds of individuals on their emotions and found that vegans and vegetarians experienced significantly lower self-reported levels of anxiety and depression than omnivores. No further distinction was made regarding the specific intake of subjects.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s well known and supported by science that certain <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC8706568\/\">vitamins, minerals, and phytochemicals reduce anxiety<\/a>, which means if you choose to reduce your consumption of meat, emphasizing unprocessed food will do more for your longterm mood than seeking out the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.npr.org\/sections\/thesalt\/2015\/12\/16\/459981099\/how-the-food-industry-helps-engineer-our-cravings\">temporary high from consuming junk foods<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Don\u2019t Overindulge in Alcohol<\/h3>\n<p>Hangovers happen. Maybe you were out with friends and lost track of how many beers you had. Or you knew it might catch up with you but you figured the night would be sufficiently memorable to offset any side-effects.<\/p>\n<p>But sometimes the morning after screams at you with more than a headache. Hangxiety, short for hangover anxiety, is the name for the sense of uncontrollable worry many suffer after a night of drinking. The science behind it is complicated, but according to a study in the journal <em>Personality and Individual Differences<\/em>, the body\u2019s drive to regulate itself after being intoxicated \u201ccan lead to increased anxiety during withdrawal.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The only known cure to hangxiety is prevention. When it isn\u2019t an option to cut out alcohol entirely, curtail your consumption. Then pay careful attention or even journal about how much you consume and how you feel the next day. You might be surprised at the patterns you notice and your ability to discern your optimal cutoff.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_112814\" class=\"pom-image-wrap photo-alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/yogacourseware.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/8-surprising-dos-and-donts-of-living-with-anxiety-according-to-experts-1.png\" data-lazy-load loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-112814\" alt=\"Woman sitting on bed writing in her journal to process her anxiety\" width=\"1024\" height=\"802\"><figcaption class=\"pom-caption \">(Photo: PeopleImages\/Getty)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h3>7. Do Schedule Worry Time<\/h3>\n<p>Instead of adding to your anxiety by trying not to fall into worry, what if you indulged your negative thoughts? Setting a scheduled time each day to worry affords you a degree of control over the part of your brain that insists you consider each and every \u201cwhat if.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>You can try journaling about your negative thoughts during this scheduled time, says McKay. \u201cLiterally writing down what you\u2019re worried about helps shift your perspective on what you\u2019re anxious about,\u201d McKay says.<\/p>\n<p>Another approach is <a href=\"https:\/\/www.yogajournal.com\/lifestyle\/what-is-mindfulness\/\">mindfulness meditation<\/a>, in which you deliberately bring your attention to your breath as you sit quietly. When your thoughts bombard you\u2014which they will\u2014try to simply observe them rather than spiraling into your reaction to them. Then bring your attention back to your breath. Repeat.<\/p>\n<p>Your scheduled worry time can also include time spent in a therapy session.<\/p>\n<h3>8. Don\u2019t Skimp on Sleep<\/h3>\n<p>No one operates at peak emotional capacity when they\u2019re not sleeping well. But those who are prone to anxiousness tend to be especially sensitive to the effects of insufficient sleep, making it more likely that you\u2019ll experience&nbsp; those unwanted symptoms, of anxiety, according to the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sleepfoundation.org\/mental-health\/anxiety-and-sleep\">Sleep Foundation.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Not only can getting less sleep negatively influence your mood, but anxiety can cause you to get less sleep, creating a particularly frustrating cycle. It\u2019s generally recommended that adults sleep between seven and nine hours a night, although your sleep needs are as unique to you as your anxiety. It can help to understand some of the most common <a href=\"https:\/\/www.outsideonline.com\/health\/wellness\/sleep-myths\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">misconceptions about sleep.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>About Our Contributor<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/karenasp.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-outbound-instanced=\"true\">Karen Asp<\/a>&nbsp;is an award-winning journalist who specializes in health, fitness, nutrition, travel, and animals. She\u2019s been widely published in numerous leading publications, including&nbsp;<\/em>Better Homes &amp; Gardens, O, Real Simple, Eating Well, Women\u2019s Health, Prevention,<em>&nbsp;and more. 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